Castleton/Grafton United Church News for June Week 4
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Hi there to friends of St. Andrew's and Castleton United Churches
Thanks to all who contributed to the Gourmet dinner draw. Congratulations to Megan North on winning Ted Westbrooks Gourmet dinner.
Thanks to all who contributed to the very moving Fathers Day reflections last Sunday at St Andrew’s There were a few memories of Dads and of growing up, a song, and a few poems found below.
Sponsorship: The Ghrir family (Shahair, Mahair, Samir, Malik, Seham) arrived May 10 in Cobourg. (Photo above)
The Syrian refugee Kattan family (Hussein, Sundus and Mudah), hit significant hurdles with Turkey not wanting someone as educated to leave, but to everyone’s relief, they have received their exit visas and are to arrive this week. Permanent Housing is still needed for this second family for a year. Contact Caryn MacDiarmid 905-269-8411 if you have furniture, household items.
Also with our sponsorship group a bit smaller than before, we are in need of Drivers to drive a family to appointments
Still pretty amazing for a small congregation like yours to sponsor one family on your own and co-sponsor two others.
July is David’s holiday month so there will be a break in the newsletter after next week.
Rev Anga Guignon will be available for pastoral support at # 905 396 1434
Coming Events for Castleton and Grafton United Church
Usual 2017-18 Service Time: Grafton 9:15 a.m. Castleton 11 a.m. (times reverse in October)
Sun June 24 Who’s Your Goliath 1 Sam 17: 32- 49; Mark 4:35- 41
Sun June 24 Participants welcome for our float in the Grafton Canada Day parade
Wed. June 27th, 7:30 p.m. - St. Andrew's Board meets at the church. Committees meet ahead of time as needed.
Wed. June 27th, 7:00 p.m. - David Bunyan, Kathy Berry and Shasta Morey invite you to the Northumberland New Ventures Band concert at Trinity United, Cobourg. Tickets are a measly $10 at the door, and the concert will feature a wide variety of music from pop and Broadway to jazz and classical. Light refreshments follow the concert.
Thursday, June 28th. Order of Cramahe" award presented at the Township of Cramahe celebrations in Victoria Square Cilboren. Marion McComb is nominated
Sun. July 1st, 9:15 a.m. – Shasta Morey and Charlene Marcus will present a service of music this morning. The program includes a Canadian sing along, some Celtic style hymns, some surprise Gospel songs and lots of hymns for you to sing.
Sunday July 8th, 11:00 a.m. - Vernonville Anniversary service and charge picnic - no service in Castleton or Grafton
newest Mandate Magazine, this one themed on Affirming http:
link to support the effort in helping those devastated by the
Guatemala volcano and ash blanket https:
United Church on separation of children from families https:
nominees for United Church Moderator to be voted in this
July in Oshawa https:
Festival of Faith offered by General Council in Oshawa this
summer to which all are invited https:
demo of Dancing Raisins http:
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A few quotes and snippets:
Romans 13 last week was used as justification by Mr Sessions to separate children from their parents. Martin Luther used that passage as justification for the government slaughter of the peasant’s revolt. It was the passage used to justify the British political doctrine of the Divine Right of Kings. It’s been used to justify slavery and apartheid; even Hitler quoted it. There are examples though in the Bible of the separation of children from their parents that were not mentioned and that he may not wish to parallel, under Herod when Jesus was born, under Pharoah when Moses was born.
“The strangers who sojourn with you shall be to you as the natives among you, and you shall love them as yourself; for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.” Leviticus 19:33-34
But the young, young children, O my brothers, They are weeping bitterly ! They are weeping in the playtime of the others, In the country of the free. --E Barrett Browning, "The Cry of the Children"
When the power of love is greater than the love of power, the world will know peace.
The crisis in the US church has almost nothing to do with being liberal or conservative; it has everything to do with giving up on the faith and discipline of our Christian baptism and settling for a common, generic US identity that is, part patriotism, part consumerism, part violence, and part Affluence. Walter Brueggemann
The only place that fear can exist is in our thoughts of the future. It is a product of our imagination, causing us to fear things that do not at present or may not ever exist. That is near insanity. Do not misunderstand me, Danger is very real, but fear is a choice. Will Smith
Sometimes we think we give love to the wrong person, and we sit there and wonder, how could I have given love to that person. They don't even deserve it, or what a waste of time. But the thing is, you don’t have to think about it that way. You should think of the fact that you were able to give love, because if you are able to give, that means you have it inside of you. It's the same thing with kindness, honesty, with your ability to care about people. Don't focus on the way people abuse that. Focus on the fact that you have it within you, and that it makes you who you are. It makes you a beautiful person, a beautiful human being. Najwa Zebian
We cannot pray in Love and living hate and still think we are worshipping God. A.W. Tozer
Anytime the Bible is quoted to defend behavior that is not motivated by the law of love, something is wrong, Amy Butler
Listen to the mustn'ts, child, listen to the don'ts, Listen to the shouldn'ts, the Impossibles, the won’ts. Listen to the never haves, then listen close to me. Anything can happen child, anything can be. Shel Silverstein
Have you ever stopped and wondered what God has done in your life that you're not even aware of?. Perhaps God saved you from a fatal car crash that never happened. I have felt like God has protected me more times than I can count, so I can only imagine how many times God has rescued me but I was unaware that I was even a danger. Take a moment to thank God for protecting you. He is always watching over you and is there for you, even when you don't realize it..
Sometimes the Bible in the hand of the one man is worse than a whiskey bottle in the hand of another... There are just some kind of men who're so busy worrying about the next world, They've never learn to live in this one, and you can look down the street and see the results. Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird
Ego vs soul: Ego seeks to serve itself. Soul seeks to serve others. Ego seeks outward recognition. Soul seeks inner authenticity. Ego sees Life as a competition. Soul sees Life as a gift. Ego seeks to preserve self. Soul seeks to preserve others. Ego looks outward. Soul looks inward. Ego feels lack. Soul feels abundance. Ego is mortal. Soul is eternal. Ego is drawn to hurt. Soul is drawn to love. Ego seeks wisdom. Soul is wisdom. Ego enjoys the prize. Soul enjoys the journey. Ego is cause to pain. Soul is cause of healing. Ego rejects God. Soul embraces God. Ego seeks to be filled. Soul is eternal wholeness. Ego is me. Soul is we.
This Letter is for you: The you who’s had a rough week. The you that seems to be under constant storm clouds. The you that feels invisible. The you that doesn't know how much longer you can hold on. The you that has lost faith. The you that always blames yourself for everything that goes wrong. To you: You are incredible. You make this world a little bit more wonderful. You have so much potential and so many things left to do. You have time. Better things are coming your way, so please hang in there. You can do it. Tiny Buddha
you treat every situation as a life and death matter, you'll die
a lot of times." Dean
"TENDERNESS AND KINDNESS ARE NOT SIGNS OF WEAKNESS AND DESPAIR BUT MANIFESTATIONS OF STRENGTH AND RESOLUTION." - KHALIL GIBRAN
"The mistake most of us make in our crucial conversations is we believe that we have to choose between telling the truth and keeping a friend." -Kerry Patterson
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Poems shared at St. Andrew’s for Father’s day were
and by Sharon Brown
What Makes a Dad
took the strength of a mountain,
are wonderful people
a million different ways,
Maybe by Mary Oliver
women walk away,
It comes and goes
after the sermon,
and luminous and demanding
Rainer Maria Rilke(1875–1926)
can tell a storm by the way the trees
There moves the storm, the transforming one,
small is what we contend with and fight;
For what we can conquer is only the small,
Whoever submits to this angel,